relentless
self improvement
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evil women - can be of the fairy tale types: the evil spoken ones who
poison the atmosphere with their foul insults and cynical selfishness;
the conniving step-motherly ones who maneuver themselves into situations
they do not belong in and cannot live up to, one animal assuming another's
shell; the wicked witch who wallows in bitterness and lives waiting to
catch unsuspecting innocents in order to ruin their lives too...
I think that women need to own their own mistakes and pitfalls, talk
about what scares us in ourselves, what we fear becoming, what perhaps
we have occasionally or permanently become
we think it sounds old-fashioned and pathetic that women wore corsets
so tight they couldn't breathe, that women would have a rib or two taken
out in order to be pleasing to the fashions of the times, that women could
spend a lifetime never enjoying a sexual experience, that women spent
hours putting wax on their faces that stayed there for days. good heavens,
we have not changed a bit, have gotten worse - now we don't just remove
a rib, we vacuum out fat, cut and shave our bones, add bosoms and butts,
or take them away
we don't cover our faces with wax because we can completely alter our
faces surgically. and too many women still live their entire lives without
experiencing a joyful or even a satisfactory sexual experience - only
now some of those unsatisfied women are sleeping with tens, or hundreds
of men
we think we're so liberated when we exercise ourselves relentlessly,
that this is somehow better than relentless dieting or girdles or corsets.
of course there are some women with their very own 16 inch waists and
others who are genuine sports enthusiasts but, nevertheless the standards
set for women are as absurd today as they ever were
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